EMDR Process
1. Foundation Building for EMDR: First, we establish a foundation for EMDR by creating a calm and safe space to activate the parasympathetic nervous system. This involves utilizing mindfulness, visualization/active imagination, adopting a new adaptive belief (mantra), and incorporating bilateral stimulation (tapping on the arms, chest, or legs) to craft a safe environment. This safe space becomes a key element when re-creating the new "recorded" memory.
2. Identifying Negative Core Beliefs: We pinpoint the negative core beliefs that we aim to address (e.g., "I am a failure," "I am not enough," "I am a disappointment," "I can't survive," etc.). Identifying the core beliefs that resonate with you, we work collaboratively to navigate through them.
3. Reprocessing Memories: We identify a recent or past experience/memory linked to the chosen negative core belief and initiate the reprocessing through bilateral stimulation (tapping), mindfulness, using your safe space, and accessing unconscious material. This process provides an opportunity for safe reprocessing, allowing the memory to be re-recorded differently. As a result, when the memory is triggered by a present experience, it is less charged and prominent in the nervous system, facilitating an adaptive response in the present.
4. Continual Growth: Clients often identify and anchor a new positive, adaptive belief or resource that emerges during the reprocessing work. This resource serves as a tool to reinforce the progress made in the session and continue the rewiring process independently. The client is encouraged to practice connecting with this resource in their daily life, fostering a sense of empowerment, resilience, and emotional regulation between sessions. This ongoing practice helps solidify neural pathways associated with positive, adaptive beliefs, supporting long-term healing and growth.